Business can be a harsh world to navigate sometimes, especially for women whose feelings run deep. Not everyone has the hide of a rhinoceros. Some would categorize that as a weakness, but sensitivity is actually a wonderful asset for those who interact with people for a living.
You have great power to hurt or enhance the lives of others. Women understand how easily people can be “bruised” by critical words or careless actions. As a business leader, you have a responsibility to lead by example. And as a woman, you have the power to lead with your heart.
“Leading with the heart is one area where women have a distinct advantage over men. As natural-born collaborators, women are interested in the thoughts and feelings of others. They can tune in where men tune out, and can achieve an ideal balance between the analytical and emotional sides of leadership.” (excerpt from You’ve Gotta Have Heart)
When I think about the power each of us has to easily impact those around us with our words, actions, or a simple look, I realize that we need to be careful how we choose to use this power. As a business owner, you touch the lives of your customers, competitors, employees, and/or vendors on a regular basis. Do you really think before you act and speak, especially when you are under pressure? Sometimes your emotions can get the better of you. The problem is that once the words are out there, you can’t take them back.
If you desire to bring positive change to the world, you must begin by setting the example you want others to follow. Be someone who positively impacts the lives of others with love and compassion, rather than someone who can bring devastation with one careless word. Even if you have a rhino hide, that doesn’t mean the person with whom you are interacting does. You don’t have to treat people with kid gloves, just treat them with a little care.
Peak performance psychologist and former competitive athlete, Dr. Shannon Reece is a leading authority on how smart women can launch and grow their business in a man’s world, leveraging their unique strengths to drive peak performance. Her website, educational products and speaking engagements are built around the fundamentals for success which include, putting yourself at the top of your list of highest priorities without guilt, transforming your fear from a liability into an asset, and understanding that being competitive is not about conforming to the status quo.
Lovely post Shannon, I think men too should implement your advice here. Let’s make the world a better place for all!
Thanks, Neil! Though I write to women, I do hope that men will also find value in my posts. I agree that we can all do more to make the world a better place, and not just in our own little corner of it. Thanks for reading!
I agree Shannon. I do believe that we should all behave this way towards one another. It’s no secret, just treat others as you would have them treat you
Wade, Absolutely! But how often do we take the time to choose our words wisely before speaking? With the rapid pace of life, this post is just a reminder to slow down when interacting with our clients, co-workers, employees, and others we wish to serve as leaders in business and life. Thanks for reading!
Agree Shannon. The bible talks about a quick retort being undesirable. I choose my words wisely before voicing them. You can never change something after you have said it or written it down.
So true!